”Learn from your disappointments”
How do you deal with disappointments? One cannot have wisdom without living life. Because we are human and fallible, throwing ourselves enthusiastically into business of living naturally means that we will stumble and fall occasionally. Real people living real live make mistakes, experience failure and disappointments.
When you apply for a job on Monday and get fired on Tuesday! May be you just get a new car and it gets hit and run by someone on the road. Or your husband fell in love with your best friend and left you! When these things happen, you might ask questions like... “Why do I have so many problems?” “Why do bad things always happen to me?” “Why now?” “Why me?” And that can gets you in self-pity, losers, disappointed. While we feel sorry about ourselves we forget to think and never do anything to fix a problem. We become more upset and unhappy.
When things go poorly, You keep telling yourself, “It’s not my fault.” This is another excuse to do nothing if it’s not your fault. The good question to ask yourself is... “What are you going to do about it?” “What do I learn from this?” Do not blame yourself, if you believe that every event in your life has a purpose, you will learn from your disappointments. Do not delude yourself into thinking a bad situation is completely of your making. Remember every disaster in your life is not so much a “disaster” It makes more sense to deal with outcomes than with fault. We are not here to be punished. We are here to be educated.
Bad things happen occasionally. And usually we do not feel their effects on us forever. It is really true that time you get better and heal wounds. Your disappointments are important and sometime serious, but your distress will pass and your life will take you in new directions. Give yourself sometime, and then you go on...
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