”Forgiveness is a gift”
Forgiveness is the key to peace. Forgiveness is letting go. Learning to forgive is a process. It begins with realizing that you are in charge of your own emotions. You have no control over what anybody else does, but you can choose how to react. Uncontrolled anger, if you have this with you, just like you are having a nuclear reactor inside your body. Maybe you often get angry and say words that hurt others. Certainly you don't feel good with that.
The same thing happens when you try to "forget" a negative situation that has an emotional charge to it. No matter how hard you try, you just can't seem to do it. You think you've forgotten but it's come back up in other ways.
Sometime you think of it as letting go of the stranglehold you have on a person whose actions that you could not control. Hating, angry, it’s something you can’t change because it’s already happened. You could be waiting for an apology. Knowing sometime will not be happen but you can control your emotions.
What you’re really wanting is for this thing, whatever it was, to have never happened. You want it to go away. You can’t change what happened, but you can change your reaction, you can allow it to go away. You can let go. You can forgive.
It is to relax your hold, to cut the energetic ties that hold you locked into the original act. Not only do you release the other, you release yourself. This doesn’t mean that what was done is OK or even acceptable. The letting go is not easy, it’s hardest things to do than holding onto your heart. Some people told you when you forgive and you will forget! Whatever it is, you have wrestled it to the ground and you’re holding on for lifetime, indeed. It’s your life that you are choking. Then you should know better to forget it!
To take control of your emotions, your feelings, your thoughts and completely turned it around, do what you know that you need to do to begin letting go of what you have been holding onto. Forgiveness is a gift you give yourself. Forgiveness has taken place when you can honestly seek well for the other person. It is when you make an effort to restore a relationship rather than avoid the relationship.
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